Individual marriage coaching for women who are burned out in their marriage…but still in love.

SANDRA JARVIS | PROFESSIONAL CERTIFIED COACH | INTERNATIONAL COACHING FEDERATION

Cor.E Energy | Certified Trauma Recovery | Certified Religious Recovery | Energy Leadership Index-Master Practitioner | Certified Relationship and Betrayal Trauma

If you're exhausted, resentful, and wondering when your marriage stopped feeling like love and started feeling like a damn job… this is for you.

You're smart. You're driven. You've done everything "right."
But no one told you that marriage would feel like carrying the emotional weight of two people... every single day.

The truth?
You don’t need to fix your partner.
You don’t need more date nights.
You don’t need to be more patient, more loving, or more "understanding."

You need to come home to yourself.

Grab your FREE
Marriage Reboot Session

Desiree M.

“Through {Sandra’s} coaching, I gave myself permission to be me–and therefore, to live my life the way I want to rather than living for other people. I’ve faced my fears, made changes in the way I think, and started validating my feelings about who I am and who I want to become. It hasn’t been easy, but it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Thank you, Sandra! …”

Hi! I’m Sandra…

Certified Relationship + Betrayal Trauma Coach, truth-teller, boundary-slayer, and former gold-star wife who nearly walked out of a 25-year marriage while still deeply in love.

As a coach, I help high-achieving women rebuild their marriages from the inside out—starting with the one relationship that changes everything: the one they have with themselves.

After watching my own mother stay stuck in an abusive marriage in the name of faith and sacrifice, I made a decision early on: I will never abandon myself to stay in a relationship.

Fast-forward a few decades… and I found myself staring down the exact kind of emotional burnout I swore I’d never tolerate. Still in love. Still committed. But buried under resentment, disconnection, and the crushing weight of doing it all.

Sound familiar?

What saved me wasn’t therapy, or date nights, or better communication scripts.
It was this: I stopped trying to fix my marriage—and started healing myself.

And that changed everything.

Today, that’s what I help my clients do. Because your marriage doesn’t have to be perfect to feel like love again. And you don’t have to choose between staying stuck or blowing it all up.

You just need the right support to come back to yourself. And I’ve got you.

Grab your FREE
Marriage Reboot Session

Arthi P.

Sandra’s kind energy and good humor made it easy and felt safe for me to open up and explore some uncomfortable relationships. Her insights helped me recognize the disempowering thoughts and behaviors I held in relation with others, and challenged me to step out of existing patterns towards more constructive alternatives. I appreciate her knowledge and guidance as I took a closer look at the things going on inside of me. As a coach myself, I highly recommend her, even if you already have a background in mental health.

Introducing…

A 12-week private coaching experience for women who are ready to reignite their marriage from the inside out—starting with themselves.

đź’ˇ What You'll Learn

As you walk through my signature LOVE Again Method, you’ll learn to become the woman you want to be whether your partner ever changes or not. It’s designed to rebuild the SELF as the pathway to shift your marriage from burnout to connection—because when one person in a relationship changes, the entire dynamic shifts.

✨ L: Love Yourself First

→ Reclaim your identity outside of wife/mother/peacemaker as you break free from self-doubt, perfectionism, and overwhelm.
Learn to stop over-functioning, drop the guilt, and meet yourself with compassion and love.

✨ O: Own Your Needs & Boundaries

→ Stop martyring yourself. Get clear on what you want, say it without apology, and stop collapsing to keep the peace.
Learn to make space for your needs without burning everything down.

✨ V: Validate Your Emotions

→ Feel your feelings without drowning in them. Make peace with your anger, sadness and fear.
Learn to regulate, not react—and finally stop spiraling after every argument.

✨ E: Expand Intimacy & Energy

→ Ditch the “sex is a chore” mindset. Reclaim connection and playfulness as you reignite your sensuality—on your terms.
No more pushing yourself to “perform.” This is about healing your relationship with your own body, energy, and desire.

✨ Again: Rebuild Love From a New Place

→ Decide what kind of relationship you want—the build it from a place of clarity, not codependency.
Learn to make decisions and take steps toward thriving, regardless of what your partner does.

This isn’t a communication skills workshop or another “save your marriage” checklist.
LOVE Again is a high-touch, trauma-informed, soul-reviving coaching experience that helps you reclaim your power, your peace, and your relationship—on your terms.

Carrie L.

I wondered if coaching was something that could really make a difference in my life. But after just 3 months of coaching with Sandra, I feel like myself again. Learning about energy and how to manage my mind has given me more confidence than I’ve had for years--and I’m enjoying my husband and family again, too. Doing the work on my mind has really paid off as I’ve started to see some powerful changes in my life. I would recommend Sandra to my best friend--which I already did!

🔥 Your Transformation:

❤️ A voice that doesn’t shake when you use it
❤️ A nervous system that no longer melts down at every fight
❤️ Defined values to guide your relationship and your life
❤️ Less pretending. Less performing. More presence.
❤️ Increased energy and emotional resilience
❤️ The confidence to be seen and heard
❤️ Knowing your needs and how to meet them
❤️ Clarity around who you want to become, whether your marriage changes or not

(aka: what you really want)

🔥 You’ll Also Walk Away With:

❤️ The ability to stop engaging in arguments that feel like emotional whiplash
❤️ Tools to help you stop losing yourself in the relationship
❤️ Emotional clarity around what you actually want
❤️ Boundaries and the tools you need to enforce them
❤️ A roadmap for conversations that create connection
❤️ Knowing how to create intimacy and playfulness on your terms
❤️ A way forward that honors both your marriage and your well-being

❤️ This Program Is For You If...

  • You're still in love, but constantly walking on eggshells or running on empty

  • You’ve read the books, tried the tools, begged for change—and nothing sticks

  • You feel like the emotional glue holding your marriage together

  • You’re tired of resenting your partner, but too exhausted to know what else to do

  • You want to feel safe, seen, and soft again... without burning it all down

❌ This Isn’t For You If...

  • You want a quick fix or couple’s counseling in disguise

  • You want to blame your partner for all your problems

  • You’re not willing to look inward or challenge old patterns

  • You’re hoping someone else will do the work for you

  • You’re still wallowing in your pain and not ready to change

My Promise to You

LOVE Again doesn’t promise to fix your partner.
It promises to help you remember the powerful, wise, deeply worthy woman inside you—
so you can stop over-functioning, start enjoying your life, and decide what comes next from a place of clarity, not survival.

Grab your FREE Marriage Reboot Session to learn more about the program and decide if L.O.V.E. Again is the right fit for you.

What clients are saying…

Kira B.

I worked with Sandra as my coach for a year and a half. In that time, she literally changed my life! I was struggling with the beginnings of a repeat bout of depression along with the challenges of being a mother to young children and a husband with chronic health challenges. At that time, I felt hopeless and overwhelmed.

We worked extensively on my mindset and my views around the situations in my life. She is a wealth of knowledge and during my time with her, I learned much about the brain, emotions and feelings, and how these things affect me. While working with her, we uncovered trauma that I didn't realize had played such a big role in my mindset and life. Sandra adjusted and was willing to spend the time on this unexpected discovery, even though it was not in my original intake goal set. I am grateful her knowledge and experience realized it was something we needed to address and that we were able to do so successfully.

Sandra worked very hard to tailor her coaching to the tools and knowledge I needed to be successful. I know she spent extra time outside of our sessions to prepare for the following week. And although she planned things to teach each week, she was also flexible in changing if there were other things I needed to process or discuss. I always felt that Sandra was very respectful of my beliefs, my views and me in general. I am religious and I greatly appreciated that she was willing to talk about and discuss my religious beliefs in conjunction with my coaching. I didn't ever feel that I needed to hide parts of me or my interests at coaching. 

My circumstances have not changed much in that year and a half. My husband still has chronic health challenges and I still have energetic, young kids. However, my mind has been better able to process in a healthy way the things happening around me. I have found joyful moments with my family again. I have been able to realize that my needs are important and am taking care of myself. I am better at understanding my triggers and how to navigate life in a successful and confident manner. I rediscovered parts of me that I didn't realize were lost. Her coaching has gotten me to a place that I can now think about what practices will help me thrive even more. Before, I was simply struggling to make it day to day. 

Sandra was an absolute delight to work with and I now consider her a dear friend. I truly feel like God sent me to her for help and am so blessed to now know the things I do. She truly is a life changing investment that is worthy of your time and money. 

Your Investment

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12 - WEEKLY PAYMENTS

$125

Your credit card will be kept on file and charged on the same day each week.

No cancellations or refunds.

3 - MONTHLY PAYMENTS

$500

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No cancellations or refunds.

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